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POP! PEP!
0d 0hrs It all started with that “pop!” The condom broke on a Saturday night, which felt almost cosmically unfair because Saturdays are supposed to be relaxing. Saturdays are for laundry, a good little nap, and, well, maybe a bit of casual fun with a hottie—but definitely not for sitting on a stranger’s dick in my bed and thinking: Oh fuck.Oh fuck oh fuck oh fuck. We both felt it, much more noticeable than I’d assumed, like a poor balloon puppy crashing into a needle. He and
Zhitong Li
May 128 min read


Negotiating a Friends-with-Benefits Network: The Negotiation of Chinese Gay Diaspora’s Experience with Blued
Exhibition: https://www.artsteps.com/view/65b65d2175fc86655b1189dd Introduction Two years ago, I made Fu Guo / The Gay Nation, a documentary that came out of my confusion about the disconnection between the Chinese gay diaspora and the UK LGBT community. While filming in London, I started chatting on Blued — a Chinese gay dating app I had already been using across borders — with a Chinese postgraduate student I found cute. Just for the record, I was not trying to recruit him
Zhitong Li
May 1215 min read


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